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It seems to be in the nature
of humans to crave a solution for every riddle, and an answer
to every question. It is in the nature of wisdom to accept that
many things will not be answered in one's lifetime. I was reminded
of this when a subscriber sent me the following "riddle,"
which has been circulating on the internet for years:
I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champagne bubble.
If you squeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.
Can you guess the riddle?
To the best of my knowledge,
there is no solution other than answering "no" to the
last line (as in "No, I can't solve it."). This also
reminds me of a joke we used to tell years ago:
Two penguins were sitting in
a bathtub. One asked the other to pass the soap, to which the
other said, "What I look like, a typewriter!?"
A few friends of mine were
with me when I told this to a connoisseur of jokes we worked
with. My friends laughed like it was the funniest thing they
had heard. An hour later our joke-loving co-worker was seen diagraming
the joke on a legal pad, and trying to understand it, which certainly
made us laugh. We knew him well enough to know he would feel
the need to "get" the joke, but we didn't know how
far this desire would take him.
The truth was that there was
no sense to the joke. It was invented solely as a cruel game
of intimidation. The only joke was on the poor victim, who didn't
know we had arranged to laugh at the nonsense like it made sense.
To his credit, this victim didn't pretend he got the joke just
because others were laughing, but he still felt that he just
"had" to understand.
These examples bring me to
an important point: there are things that we will never understand.
This is not to say that we should not try to understand, just
that we may not get there in this lifetime. Apart from the torture
of trying to get a joke that actually makes no sense or answer
a question for which there is no answer, there are also just
things that we won't know about. The question "how does
the sun produce light?" has a scientific explanation now,
but a thousand years ago any thoughts or any hundred-year study
of the subject would have been pure speculation.
Similarly, there is much that
we cannot understand in this time. Failure to accept this, and
the craving to explain everything right now leads people to invent
explanations. This, I think, is much
of the reason for belief in alien-caused crop circles, psychic
phenomena, and even some of what passes as the "science"
of psychology. It seems that it will never be acceptable to say,
"We don't understand this, we have no suitable explanation,
and we may never have one."
I propose, though, that this
clinging to explanations is a great hindrance to brain power.
There are questions without answers. They may have answers later
or may not, but if we invent an answer, we close our minds and
reduce the chances of discovering the truth (if it can be discovered).
Wisdom, and the goal of better thinking skills, require that
we say "I don't know" once in a while, or at the very
least we say, "maybe this is the answer," but I'll
keep my mind open to other possibilities."
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